I have been on Okc for almost two years and have only went on one date. Most guys who message me only want sex. I have tried changing my profile,settings and pictures, and I keep getting the same people over and over again. I must be the only person who can’t find a date online or off.

I made a post last week about my OkCupid numbers. If you notice, i message guys all the time & rarely respond to the ones that message me. Take your dating into your own hands! Women can message men first, if you don’t want to be too forward, let him initiate the date.

If you do message guys regularly and still aren’t getting the results you want, send me a link to your profile. I’ll check it out and message you some suggestions. (I promise I won’t post the link).