Date Follow Up Text: Who Sends First? After How Long? | Charmed & Dangerous

Date Follow Up Text: Who Sends First? After How Long?

I usually send one if the guy paid for the meal/activity to thank him & say I had a good time. Other than that, I tend to wait for him to come to me unless I really liked him. I’ve read some dating books that says a girl shouldn’t send a follow up text at all because it looks desperate. Thoughts?